How much is your service worth?

Dear Creative People, Specialist, and Consultant

As a buyer, I don’t mind and I would pay double or triple for the service you provide so long as :

1. Convince me that I get so much more than I pay and why your service is the right one for me not the others.

2. Be a hero. ” Wow” me. Make my life easier.

3. Help and assist me to achieve so much more than my goal.

There you go, I said it. Now some people do, but I don’t give a freakin damn if you’re that famous dude or you are just average service provider.

Give me those numbers above, I will be your client for life who worships you and don’t forget I will gladly spread the words about you and your service.

I am aware some tight-freeloader head out there who will negotiate and persuade you to go cheaper – if you are willing, go for it, or simply walk away (i’ll blog about “how to choose your client” later)

Dead simple!

So now you can say confidently how much you charge for your service.

Regards
A customer

How to be successful

Let’s just make it simple.

You have a project to do. There is a start point we call it A to the finish line we call it B.

In the process of doing your project there will always be obstacles to face that will lure you to delay or give up.

That’s why you need a tool or system to help you stay on track. You can use written reminder such as a note, an app like lift on iPhone, or your chosen method.

One thing you definitely should do is to create a boundary – some divisions of smaller goal within your main project.

You tend to be motivated and reach finish line B if you work on smaller scale.

It’s snow ball effect. Achieve tiny success after another, no doubt you achieve a bigger success.

Happiness

What is it really?

Can we change the definition with “consciously being aware about oneself and surrounding with its content and observing without labelling.” ?

How To Deal With Fear

I am scarred of height
I am scarred of being alone
I am scarred of not having enough
I am scarred of being rejected
I am scarred of being bullied
I am scarred of getting hurt
I am scarred of being ugly looking
I am scarred of trying new thing
I am scarred of being rip off
I am scarred of getting fired
I am scarred of losing my job
I am scarred of getting lost
I am scarred of reaching out first
I am scarred of getting fat
I am scarred of being exposed
I am scarred of being used
I am scarred of being robbed
I am scarred of him
I am scarred of her
I am scarred of them
I am scarred of God
I am scarred of Evil
I am scarred of being attacked
I am scarred of dying
I am scarred of that creature
I am scarred of not going to Heaven when I die
I am scarred of being alone when I am old
I am scarred of losing
I am scarred of not getting the job
I am scarred of my father
I am scarred of my mother
I am scarred of my brother
I am scarred of my sister
I am scarred of uncle
I am scarred of auntie
I am scarred of grand father or grand mother
I am scarred of unable to pass the test
I am scarred of not being able to make it
I am scarred of being late
I am scarred of being perceived as dishonest
I am scarred of losing family
I am scarred of losing friend/s
I am scarred of what people say about me
I am scarred of being mistaken
I am scarred of being homeless
I am scarred of losing my body part
I am scarred of losing my mind
I am scarred of my life
I am scarred of drawing
I am scarred of not being loved
I am scarred of drawing
I am scarred of ….

Simply act on whatever you fear of..

Until we pull the trigger , we never know what the the situation unfold. Act, we will see the re-action. It is not the result. but the action counts.

That’s the only trick, That’s the only technique. That’s the only way you will feel energized and feeling good about yourself again.  Pretend to be brave, your mind does not know. Our mind is only able to hold one feeling at the time.  When you feel good, it is impossible you feel the fear at the same time.

When you are willing to act, create a plan and act on it.

 

Perception

Whatever you do, like or not you are being judged by others. So now, if you inline with your core beliefs in every action, that’s a good thing as you will be perceived as a person you like to be.

Like mostly of us, we do thing without awareness and conscious – it’s just an automatic action because of our habits. We are what we do repeatedly.

So when people describes you as something you disagree, we can’t really blame them as what people see, say, hear and watch of you are matters to them.

Now it’s up to you how the perception of you is just right like you want it..

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One Trick To Achieve Your Long Term Goal

You have a map of your action to get to goal sign. Long list of steps to get there. Daunting! Overwhelm. But fear not. Keep that map and start with small chunk of step.

Your job is to accomplish your goal of the day. Simply achieve the today’s goal. Before you know it you’re getting closer to the main goal. When you’re done. Make sure you celebrate this small achievement. Be proud of what you have achieved.

 

 

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Give Today!

Don’t expect anything in return. Give it away for free

Your time
Your expertise
Your advice
Your skill
Your money
Your lunch
Your book
Your guitar
Your smile
Your love
Your forgiveness
Your widget
Your service
Your song
Your house
Your anything…

So what?

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